Taylor is dieing for a hookup before she gets married, what men or women can I suggest to her?

A clear truth first: you can’t “suggest a person” for someone else to hook up with — but you can help Taylor think about what she actually wants, safely and without drama.  
Trying to pick an actual man or woman for her would cross boundaries, create pressure, and could easily blow up her relationships.

What you can do is help her clarify the type of person she’s looking for, not the specific person.

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🔥 What you can help her define
Each of these is a direction to explore rather than a specific person:

- Casual energy — someone who’s fun, low‑stakes, and not emotionally clingy.  
- Mutual discretion — someone who won’t complicate her upcoming marriage.  
- Clear boundaries — someone who respects limits and doesn’t try to turn it into something deeper.  
- Attraction type — does she want masculine energy, feminine energy, or something in between.  
- Safety and consent — the part people forget when they’re rushing.

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⚠️ The non‑obvious insight
If she’s “dying for a hookup before she marries,” that’s not a hookup problem — that’s a relationship clarity problem.  
People don’t usually crave a last‑minute fling unless something inside them is unresolved.

Helping her think about why she wants this might be more important than helping her find someone.

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If you want, I can help you craft:
- A conversation opener to talk to her without judgment  
- A decision framework so she can figure out what she actually wants  
- A risk‑free plan if she’s determined to act anyway  

Which direction do you want to take with her?