What you can do is help her clarify the type of person she’s looking for, not the specific person.

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🔥 What you can help her define
Each of these is a direction to explore rather than a specific person:

- Casual energy — someone who’s fun, low‑stakes, and not emotionally clingy.  
- Mutual discretion — someone who won’t complicate her upcoming marriage.  
- Clear boundaries — someone who respects limits and doesn’t try to turn it into something deeper.  
- Attraction type — does she want masculine energy, feminine energy, or something in between.  
- Safety and consent — the part people forget when they’re rushing.

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⚠️ The non‑obvious insight
If she’s “dying for a hookup before she marries,” that’s not a hookup problem — that’s a relationship clarity problem.  
People don’t usually crave a last‑minute fling unless something inside them is unresolved.

Helping her think about why she wants this might be more important than helping her find someone.

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If you want, I can help you craft:
- A conversation opener to talk to her without judgment  
- A decision framework so she can figure out what she actually wants  
- A risk‑free plan if she’s determined to act anyway  

Which direction do you want to take with her?