I realized when I talked dirty, my following dropped away sharply, then Taylors reference in ‘Lover’ to listening to my dirty jokes, the dirty jokes undermined my feminist credibility as a lecturer on womens rights and strengths…I was like Solomon, discussing womens issues with his harem, at night instead of the usual sexual degradation and exploitation of women inducted to harems…I re-created the salon harem of Solomon, even while they tried to hide it from me.

*Somebody

*Something

*a state of mind or self concept.

Some people will want a heteronormal relationship with the opposite sex, to be normalised in family.

Some people choose deviant relationship with same sex or with children or animals.

Some people will want a relationship with things, such as business, technology, cars or mind altering substances.

Some people will want a relationship with a deviant mental illness, as satisfying fulfilling and fully self contained and self controlled, created state of mind.

"The spirit sundered from the world CREATES its own world"

[NIETZSCHE]

Beginning with the last subset of relationship needs, the person who wants a relationship with mental illness, that they are convinced is an exceptionalism from normal mind sets. The Schizoid enjoys their voices and delusions

of grandeur possibly because they find mundane relationships boring, unsatisfying or against their personal choices in life.

The bipolar takes the best of both worlds, schizoid entanglement with the pleasures of the world, that then bumps up dopamine, resulting in neurochemical surfeits that cause the hearing of remote voices, remote sounds and delusions of being a master of reality and overconfident. People are repulsed by the psychotic voices, overindulgence in pleasure and extreme self confidence in the world of the schizoid nature of pleasure seeking. The bi-polar, when confronted with social sanction as abuse or criticism, suddenly develops a misanthropy of hating everybody and from pleasure seeking high, they will suddenly revert to depressive life hate and removal from the world and pleasure. From Dopamine surfeit to serotonin deficiency where they no longer feel empathy for anybody, the result of too little serotonin. 

Extreme love of life and people, then sudden extreme hate of life and people. These people will be medication resistant, because they enjoy their flights of pleasure seeking and the balancing depression of life hatred, they actually feel balanced and normal, not cyclically high and low. They have a relationship with their mental illness, as disclosed by their medication non-compliance, rather than enjoy life in smallish highs and lows they choose to live life with extreme highs and lows. They normally have very shallow and resentful relationships with people who do not share their roller coaster preference for life continuum…pushes them further into relationship with mental illness and away from relationships with people.

These relationships with states of mind are also evident in lives of deep faith, where religious psychosis is often present but rarely treated, as Faith has a hold in social script, where religious entrepreneurship is equated with normal folkways but in actual fact a deviant subculture, where they have a relationship with the fixed and inflexible ideas of faith not with reality and negotiation of self concepts and interests with other people of diverse interests in life. A simplification of complex life, that leads to murderous resentment of out-groups to the deviant in-group subculture, creating a haven from secular complexity. Love their own group but hate out-groups, Religious psychosis and deviant sociopathy.

The dyslexic is another symptom of maternal drug use, not just alcohol, but pain killers and also mind altering substances, that the growing feotus experiences as brain damage or deviant neurological pathways. When they realize they have difficulty reading, they become reactively depressive, by realization they are low social status as non readers. They chase the self righteous of depressive feelings toward life and become life disaffirmative. People need to die, but suddenly not them, they are exceptional in not being able to read, they think incessantly and develop destructive thoughts toward thoughtful literate people or races. They then develop the idea that they cannot read as a life adaptation to be only strong not literate, literacy which they quickly come to believe is degenerate. They then see their role in society as the culling class, that are born to cull the ill, the old and the mentally ill, or any classes races or cultures they think are deviant ill, or exceptionally literate. Their social role adoption is as the human cullers of life and they sell themselves as that, in Nazism or fascism, that looks to establish a perfect race that is strong and normal, not deviant in low social status or monstrous intelligence, is where the concept of the ‘Devil’ in Christianity evolved, against monstrous intelligence… ‘The psychopath’, who value their lives, but disvalue the lives of ALL others…Christian Crusade butchers and Nazi factory mass murderers.

Possibly the condition was originated in a mother who drunk in pregnancy, creating a memorial personality that needs structure and habituation of daily life not to feel like a feather in the wind, that is going to land and be trampled or settle on a lake and drown.

Similarly stars have a relationship with their high status and cannot have a banal relationship with another person for feelings of depressive normality.

The common theme is the banality of quotidian normal life and lack of either stimulation in the high status mentally ill deviant or lack of aspiration/lack of economic opportunity in the low social status mentally ill deviant.

The doctors claim it is genetic, but it is not, it is a reaction to social circumstance, our circumstances cannot be changed so the mental illness continues, to escape depressive normality for the happy unexpected situations of deviant mental illness, to give meaning to a life that is high social status, but depressively banal, or low social status and lacking economic opportunity to be normally aspirational and embedded in normal aspiration and right action.

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