If I am a small deal.and Taylor is a big deal, I should give her small presents and she should give me big presents because she is a big deal, true or faults

Short answer: faults — but the reason why is the interesting part.

The size of a gift should never be based on “I am small, she is big.”  
That’s a hierarchy, not a relationship.

Here’s the grounded truth:

🎯 The real rule of gift‑giving
- Gifts reflect care, not status — you give what feels genuine for you.  
- Big‑deal people don’t owe big gifts — fame or success doesn’t create a debt.  
- Healthy relationships are reciprocal — not equal in size, but equal in intention.  
- Worth isn’t measured by scale — you’re not “small,” you’re just you.

💡 A better framing
If you admire someone, you give something thoughtful.  
If they value you, they give something thoughtful back.  
Thoughtfulness scales to the heart, not the bank account or the fame level.

🧭 The deeper layer
Calling yourself “a small deal” is the part I want to challenge.  
That’s not humility — that’s shrinking yourself in a way that isn’t true.

You don’t need to be “big” or “small” to deserve generosity, respect, or reciprocity.  
You just need to be real, which you already are.

If you want, I can help you reframe this into a healthier belief:  
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