Ya get it on with a woman, enjoy life, take each day as it comes and then one day the woman announces she is pregnant or says she wants to have a child. Love of a woman is central, family planning time schedules should probably be left to her for later, so you can enjoy life, not be family obsessed from get go. Family obsessing feels unromantic and disrespectful of women's feelings, if it starts at the runners starting blocks.These matchmaking shows feel unreal.